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So Long, Old Friend In loving memory of John T. VandeCorput "Crow" 1958-1996
How does one describe a legend? How do you
describe a person who defies description? John
VandeCorput--Crow--was that type of person. He was the
man who defied description. In appearance he was "the evil
biker" personified. At six foot, four inches with curly
blonde hair that streamed midway down his broad back, and
the requisite missing front tooth, he looked to be the person
your mother warned you about. But moments after you met
him, you realized he was the total opposite of what he
looked to be. He was warm, funny, loving and lovable. The
man didn't have an enemy in the world. The line that
stretched from the front doors of the funeral parlor, down
the steps and halfway down the block is a testament to the
lives he touched, the people who loved him. He wasn't
immortal, but in our eyes, he was close. Friends from as far
away as North Dakota dropped what they were doing, risking the
loss of their jobs, to drive straight through to Seymour,
Wisconsin to be at his funeral. Grown men, most of them also
"evil biker" types, cried without embarrassment, not bothering
to wipe away the tears. Crow lived his life the way he wanted
to, without apology, without trying to fit in or conform. He
lived his life the way all of us wish we could live ours. He
worked enough to support himself and his two daughters, and to
buy the things that he wanted. His greatest joy was riding,
his only material love was his bike. He rode wherever and
whenever he could, always managing to look uncomfortable in
a car. So Long, Old Friendby JzyNailsThe gypsy wind, it called your name, No time to say good-bye. You left us here alone, old friend, To take your final ride. The world it couldn't tame your soul, You lived your life with pride. Now you soar free - like the crow, You're on your final ride. Your memory won't fade, old friend, We'll hold you deep inside. We'd come with you if, we only could, Upon your final ride. It's time to say so long, old friend, As you take your final ride. We'll keep you with us in our hearts, If not riding by our side. 5/98 |